Levels of
Listening
( from Top 20 Teens pp. 101-107 )
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5 |
The Zone |
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4 |
Processing |
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3 |
Distracted |
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2 |
Judgmental |
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1 |
My Life is on My Mind |
What are you thinking about
right now?
· Your plans for the weekend
· How boring this class is
· How hot or cold you are
· How long until the class ends
Bottom 20s
believe they are good
listeners, but not all listening is the same.
Level 1: My Life is on My
Mind
At
this level the only thing you are really listening to is yourself. This is
fine, unless something else is going on that requires your attention – like
classroom material. You may find yourself in Fantasyland if you are bored;
replaying a soccer game or pretending you are
Superman.
One
way of dealing with this is to temporarily put you thought in the Parking
Lot. That means that you make a conscious decision to put your thoughts
aside until later. You want to consider these thoughts, but Not Now.
Level 2: Judgmental
Judgmental-ville is a small-minded town where the inhabitants:
· Jump to conclusions
· Over-react
· Interrupt or finish other people’s sentences
· Agree or disagree
· Evaluate themselves or others
Unless
you want to live there permanently, put these thoughts in the Parking Lot!
Level 3: Distracted
This
occurs when you are distracted by something in the environment. The average
person is distracted 22 minutes out of every 60 minutes. A Top 20s student
will look at the distraction and then say "Not Now." A Below 80s
student will continue to watch the distraction to the end.
Level 4: Processing
Processing
is highly concentrated listening that is trying to analyze, memorize, and
synthesis all at the same time. This is Above the Line listening, but the
problem is that you wear yourself out. You will be exhausted by the end of
class.
Level 5: The Zone
Being
in the Zone occurs when your mind is quiet and calm. You are totally present to
the moment and your mind is like a sponge. Information is soaked up, but not
processed, so you simply add it to your collection to think about at a later
moment. Once the listening is over, you can take the information out and
process it in your own way.
The
secret to better learning is better listening!
Anytime you are in the other 4
levels make a conscious choice to put your thought in the Parking Lot. Say to
yourself, "Not Now."